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		<title>By: jonds</title>
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		<dc:creator>jonds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 09:56:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m liberal and I think it is wrong, all should learn you can&#039;t always win and you don&#039;t get a trophy for losing.  Only a right wing extremist would think it is a good idea&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m liberal and I think it is wrong, all should learn you can&#8217;t always win and you don&#8217;t get a trophy for losing.  Only a right wing extremist would think it is a good idea<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Natasha's Ghost</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natasha's Ghost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 09:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a young son and from my experience with people in our lives I&#039;d say that most people who feel this way are also people I know to be mostly liberal in their other beliefs. I don&#039;t actually know a person who follows a hard conservative or hard liberal line about every single thing they believe. 

I do believe, however, that both ideologies appeal to general trends in personality. We all follow beliefs to their logical (or illogical) ends, so it makes sense that the stereotype would mostly (not always) hold true.

Something interesting that I realized when I was contemplating why people would want to reward win and lose the same was that, as a culture, we are afraid of feelings. For the most part we seem incapable or unwilling to deal with anger, sadness, frustration, and even often happiness and joy. To avoid having to deal with these emotions and develop self esteem naturally we teach kids how to get around the whole ugly mess--which is consequently, our lives.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a young son and from my experience with people in our lives I&#8217;d say that most people who feel this way are also people I know to be mostly liberal in their other beliefs. I don&#8217;t actually know a person who follows a hard conservative or hard liberal line about every single thing they believe. </p>
<p>I do believe, however, that both ideologies appeal to general trends in personality. We all follow beliefs to their logical (or illogical) ends, so it makes sense that the stereotype would mostly (not always) hold true.</p>
<p>Something interesting that I realized when I was contemplating why people would want to reward win and lose the same was that, as a culture, we are afraid of feelings. For the most part we seem incapable or unwilling to deal with anger, sadness, frustration, and even often happiness and joy. To avoid having to deal with these emotions and develop self esteem naturally we teach kids how to get around the whole ugly mess&#8211;which is consequently, our lives.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Home-School</title>
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		<dc:creator>Home-School</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 08:46:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Taking away the value of victory from the achievers and rewarding the ones who didn&#039;t succeed in life ism a very liberal concept. They have such good intentions. They don&#039;t want the losers to feel bad.it just makes the winners feel like they won nothing. Why try so hard? The road to hell is paved with good intentions and the liberals blindly stroll down that road.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taking away the value of victory from the achievers and rewarding the ones who didn&#8217;t succeed in life ism a very liberal concept. They have such good intentions. They don&#8217;t want the losers to feel bad.it just makes the winners feel like they won nothing. Why try so hard? The road to hell is paved with good intentions and the liberals blindly stroll down that road.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: ruth</title>
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		<dc:creator>ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 08:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is this really new?  I think that this occurred when I was a kid and I&#039;m 42.

I think it&#039;s a notion fostered by parents, actually, and might not be politically motivated at all.  Some people just think that teaching a little kid to enjoy sports might help him or her later in life, and that there is plenty of time and opportunity for development of excellence.

I had my son in baseball starting when he was in diapers.  He hated it.  I had to drag him out there.  He always got stuck in the outfield picking daisies.  He got constantly yelled at by the coaches, even though there was nothing out there but grass to pick and he had fun picking it.  He was a good hitter, though.  And you know what?  I&#039;m hoping it keeps him off drugs when he&#039;s a teen.  Life isn&#039;t all about winning a game.

And how many of the very best of the best kids will have a career in professional sports?  And how many kids have sports helped where the kids didn&#039;t stand a snow-ball&#039;s chance in even high school competition?  We don&#039;t know unless we give all the kids a chance to play.  And we can&#039;t do that unless they have fun in the process.  It&#039;s just common sense.  Rewarding positive behavior is not a liberal concept.  It&#039;s a conservative one.  Kids getting outside and playing, instead of sitting in front of the tube is a positive concept.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;We give all the little kids trophies.  They earn them just for putting up with the coaches and the coaches&#039; kids.  And these trophies are bought and paid for by the parents who pay the fees so their kids can play these sports, so who should decide this?  The people paying, that&#039;s who.

And if you&#039;re still not convinced, how about the trophies are really for the parents?

And if you&#039;re still not convinced &lt;cough, conservative males, cough&gt; do recall that God also created mothers.

Eh, my son prefers snow-boarding anyway.  He thinks your trophies are for attention-seeking hogs who cannot just enjoy some good fun. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is this really new?  I think that this occurred when I was a kid and I&#8217;m 42.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s a notion fostered by parents, actually, and might not be politically motivated at all.  Some people just think that teaching a little kid to enjoy sports might help him or her later in life, and that there is plenty of time and opportunity for development of excellence.</p>
<p>I had my son in baseball starting when he was in diapers.  He hated it.  I had to drag him out there.  He always got stuck in the outfield picking daisies.  He got constantly yelled at by the coaches, even though there was nothing out there but grass to pick and he had fun picking it.  He was a good hitter, though.  And you know what?  I&#8217;m hoping it keeps him off drugs when he&#8217;s a teen.  Life isn&#8217;t all about winning a game.</p>
<p>And how many of the very best of the best kids will have a career in professional sports?  And how many kids have sports helped where the kids didn&#8217;t stand a snow-ball&#8217;s chance in even high school competition?  We don&#8217;t know unless we give all the kids a chance to play.  And we can&#8217;t do that unless they have fun in the process.  It&#8217;s just common sense.  Rewarding positive behavior is not a liberal concept.  It&#8217;s a conservative one.  Kids getting outside and playing, instead of sitting in front of the tube is a positive concept.<br /><b>References : </b><br />We give all the little kids trophies.  They earn them just for putting up with the coaches and the coaches&#8217; kids.  And these trophies are bought and paid for by the parents who pay the fees so their kids can play these sports, so who should decide this?  The people paying, that&#8217;s who.</p>
<p>And if you&#8217;re still not convinced, how about the trophies are really for the parents?</p>
<p>And if you&#8217;re still not convinced &lt;cough, conservative males, cough&gt; do recall that God also created mothers.</p>
<p>Eh, my son prefers snow-boarding anyway.  He thinks your trophies are for attention-seeking hogs who cannot just enjoy some good fun. lol</p>
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		<title>By: Vicki S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vicki S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 07:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this comes from liberals. I believe there should be a winner and a loser. Competition and team work are good things to teach. Just because little Billy was on the losing team and didn&#039;t get a trophy, his teams parents should be out working harder with their kids so they do better next time. You can not always win!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this comes from liberals. I believe there should be a winner and a loser. Competition and team work are good things to teach. Just because little Billy was on the losing team and didn&#8217;t get a trophy, his teams parents should be out working harder with their kids so they do better next time. You can not always win!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: MoltarRocks</title>
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		<dc:creator>MoltarRocks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 07:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember when my son was 6 and got a soccer trophy.  He quipped, &quot;Dad, why did I get a trophy?  We didn&#039;t win.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember when my son was 6 and got a soccer trophy.  He quipped, &quot;Dad, why did I get a trophy?  We didn&#8217;t win.&quot;<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Anti-Global Warming Bigot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anti-Global Warming Bigot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 06:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s political correctness to the extreme.  Everyone is supposed to good and no one is to be left out.  The MVP gets a trophy but so do the bench warmers.  Where is the incentive to work harder or do better? 

Now, we have graduation ceremonies for five year olds, then elementary school.  So what?  Graduation from high school is just another graduation now. 

I agree that it&#039;s okay to fail, and sometimes one has to fail.  It&#039;s the only way to learn, and there&#039;s really nothing wrong with failing-- if one learns a lesson from it.  It&#039;s a necessary part of life and something we will deal with one way or another, unless we stay home and never try or do anything.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s political correctness to the extreme.  Everyone is supposed to good and no one is to be left out.  The MVP gets a trophy but so do the bench warmers.  Where is the incentive to work harder or do better? </p>
<p>Now, we have graduation ceremonies for five year olds, then elementary school.  So what?  Graduation from high school is just another graduation now. </p>
<p>I agree that it&#8217;s okay to fail, and sometimes one has to fail.  It&#8217;s the only way to learn, and there&#8217;s really nothing wrong with failing&#8211; if one learns a lesson from it.  It&#8217;s a necessary part of life and something we will deal with one way or another, unless we stay home and never try or do anything.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Some Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Some Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 06:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the practice was initiated by those wishing to discourage competition among children.  I believe that it is misguided.  We ought to raise children in such a way that they develop into adults in a way that suits their nature and the practical realities of adult life.  Some children thrive on competition; others are more oriented toward cooperation.  Why not accommodate both?  However, a reality of adult life, at least in this society, is that one must compete in order to shrive in the work world.  It is irresponsible to raise kids not to expect competition and then toss them into an adult world which demands it.

As to your question, liberals more likely support the idea.  They tend to emphasize collective action and responsibility to a greater degree than conservatives, and individualism to a lesser degree.  Liberal ideas do have some merit.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the practice was initiated by those wishing to discourage competition among children.  I believe that it is misguided.  We ought to raise children in such a way that they develop into adults in a way that suits their nature and the practical realities of adult life.  Some children thrive on competition; others are more oriented toward cooperation.  Why not accommodate both?  However, a reality of adult life, at least in this society, is that one must compete in order to shrive in the work world.  It is irresponsible to raise kids not to expect competition and then toss them into an adult world which demands it.</p>
<p>As to your question, liberals more likely support the idea.  They tend to emphasize collective action and responsibility to a greater degree than conservatives, and individualism to a lesser degree.  Liberal ideas do have some merit.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Half-pint</title>
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		<dc:creator>Half-pint</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 05:34:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Only overly protective parents could come up with that idea.  &quot;O it&#039;s ok that you suck son you got a trophy.&quot;  

I play lacrosse and we never get trophies or medals for anything worse than 3rd place.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;liberal</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only overly protective parents could come up with that idea.  &quot;O it&#8217;s ok that you suck son you got a trophy.&quot;  </p>
<p>I play lacrosse and we never get trophies or medals for anything worse than 3rd place.<br /><b>References : </b><br />liberal</p>
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		<title>By: Jacob W</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacob W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 04:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is a trend to eliminate any form of competition.  

*&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a trend to eliminate any form of competition.  </p>
<p>*<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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